Helping Others

Today's theme was Helping Others, a very topical subject considering the disaster that has ravaged Haiti. Helping others is also a fundamental value shared by Toastmasters around the world. Members appreciate that each meeting is akin to a learning lab, allowing them to experiment past their comfort zone without risking ridicule. Instant evaluations of speeches provides with valuable, on-the-spot constructive feedback. We all strive to help fellow members develop their speaking skills because every single one of us will eventually be asked to stand before the group and speak.

Never to say the word "sorry" when delivering a speech

This week's nugget was brought to us by Nick.  Nick reminded members never to say the word "sorry" when delivering a speech.  Speakers sometimes say "sorry" when their mind goes blank, if they have misunderstood a table topic question or if they happen to cough or sneeze when presenting.  Apologizing brings unwarranted attention to the circumstances you are trying to dissimulate. Simply pause, gather your thoughts or ask for the question to be repeated and move on.  Saying "excuse me" is appropriate if you have dropped something or coughed, but there is never any need to say you are sorry.